As I write this piece, I have my Goop Wellness Yoni Egg inside my vagina. I have decided at this time for women of colour to take back our vagina's and the love and spiritual teaching of our elders. I believe sex is a medicine that we all need and it heals us from within when we become one. 

This Weeks Sexy Self Care Kit

This Sexy Saturday is dedicated to the womb.  At this time of the pandemic crisis.  We need to heal within, so why not start with your uterus and vagina.  Exercise your sex organ, and tighten that after baby VJJ. Close the pleasure gap Better Sex with your Yoni.   

Before I put the egg inside, I washed it with intimate toilets, then blessed it with sage.  Then put some The Perfect V Beauty Serum on it so it would go in smoothly. 

Then boop and some dental floss to the holes and pop in little egg.  It feels cold inside and like a genital massage.

Yes, females, all the flowers are starting to bloom, so that means its time to start taking care of your V.

Perfect V Beauty  Femmine Care

Yes, and we have found The Perfect V‚ĄĘ Intimate Beauty Care Secret you need to know about. When you travel a lot like I do, sometimes the V area does not get the proper care she needs. That is why the intimate¬†beauty care products¬†are a booming business. We ladies have to be ready for anything in a flash.¬†

The full moon just passed, my period is due in a week, and I am stressed out.  Something the Yoni, egg is supposed to cure. Oh and plus I have not had sex in a long time, so after whatever this period in time we are in is over, I want to make my kitten happy, so she needs to be ready. 

Yoni Eggs

A little background: In 2017, Goop posted a story called¬†"Better Sex: Jade Eggs for Your Yoni," which claimed that these eggs‚ÄĒsupposedly an ancient "guarded secret of Chinese royalty" used by queens and concubines‚ÄĒhave the "power to cleanse and clear" making them "ideal for detox, too." The article also claimed putting a jade egg into your vagina for hours at a time could improve your sex life, balance your menstrual cycle, and "intensify feminine energy," among other things.

Yoni eggs harness the power of energy work, crystal healing, and a Kegel-like physical practice. Insert the egg into your vagina and feel the connection with your body by squeezing and releasing the egg.

More on how to use:

  • Step one: Wash your egg with soap and water. After, place it in hot (i.e. recently boiled) water for about 10 minutes. Let it cool.
  • Step two: Gently insert the egg into your vagina‚ÄĒlike you would a tampon‚ÄĒthe slightly larger side of the egg first. Work your pelvic floor‚ÄĒand feel the connection with your body‚ÄĒby squeezing and releasing the egg. You might begin with a 10-15 minute session, if comfortable. Build up a practice if it brings joy and wellbeing to you.
  • Until next time: Clean your egg after use and before using again. Keep it in or on a space that is sacred to you or has good vibes.
  • Nephrite jade
  • Length: 1.57", Width: 1.18"
  • Eggs are pre-drilled for string add-on; we recommend using unwaxed dental floss

Sexual Health 

Female sexual health and wellbeing should not be taboo any more.  So, let's start talking about sex more.  What you like, what you don't, what you're worried about. From feminine hygiene and women's supplements to sex tech, we may be getting serious about sexual wellness, but we can certainly have some fun while we're at it. 

Couple Goals  Sexy Lingerie is a Must on Lock Down 

Now for the lingerie that every woman needs and her partner wants.  We have to make a little effort an why not, you have been working hard on getting your life together. Sex in the City lives on, so take notes. This week I headed over to  Savage Fenty for Geo Mesh Teddy.

Transform your look with a dose of glamour in the Geo Mesh Teddy. Featuring a dramatic low V, high leg, and split panel back detail.  Now add  LIP GLOSS from Fenty Beauty and eye shadow.  Now you don't have to worry about your make up getting messed up. Now you are ready for a quartine sexy video chat.  Until you meet again take care of your V.  

Rihanna is also donating to COVID¬†19. The Clara Lionel Foundation (CLF) was founded in 2012 by Robyn ‚ÄúRihanna‚ÄĚ Fenty in honor of her grandparents, Clara and Lionel Braithwaite. CLF supports and funds groundbreaking and effective education, health and emergency response programs around the world. With the voices of Rihanna and her fans, CLF also engages in global advocacy with the goal of improving the quality of life for young people everywhere.


These are just a few Sexy Saturday Sexy Self-Care Kit ideas to Rev-Up the Weekend at Home. Stay tuned in for more Sexy Saturday's to come.  If you have a tip, leave a comment below. Or even if you want to tell us how you got your sexy back over the lockdown period. 


Apr 11, 2020

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